I had a married Catholic friend once talk about her view on sex. She also viewed it as sacred sex. A very spiritual act, a type of sacrament, a type of communion. I will not even begin to try to describe all that she said, she described it so beautifully and I would probably ugly it up. lol
I was impressed with her candor and almost, dare I say, jealous. hehe
I agree of course that there is sex magic and perversions.
I know someone at odds with their spouse because of a type of tantric sex. I think both parties should be on the same page in that case.
I do believe if more things were out in the open, less horrible things that are hidden, would be.
Agree with RR as well, though all sex crimes are hideous and scars the soul, there is an extra level of evil layered on it when it happens at the hands of someone who is supposedly in the
God business. And all crimes of that nature are even more destructive when it happens to a child. There are adults who lose their faith because of this, you can imagine how it shatters the faith of a child.
And I do not give a damn how many people freak on me for this, but I know plenty of those who went deeply into the occult, that were sexually abused by the church. Since one side failed them, they went the other way. It changes a child's perception of good and evil.
There is a rock group that began in my area, that put out a very powerful song, at least I see it as powerful, because it gives someone who has never experienced this a look from the eyes of a child. He won a ton of fans, both men and women, who this song spoke too. And he won our respect when he refused to back down and remove a part of this song as he was asked to. It may be ugly and harsh, but it is real. Let everyone see how ugly it is, no sugar coating.
And I like what you shared dean.allen.jones. It reminds me how some that are not Christians are more Christlike than those who claim to be.
Actually that philosophy was another aid in what I see as a healing process. I realize the world is ugly, ugly things happen, but there is detachment.
It allowed me see not all Christians were responsible and to stop hating them.
Here is that song, maybe I posted it before? It has an ugly word in it, but what happened to these people is much uglier.
In the day by day collision
Called the art of growing up
There's an innocence we look for in the stars
To be taken back to younger days
When there was no giving up
On the people we held closest to our hearts
Yeah it is you that I remember in that glowing
It is you that took my first away from me
It is you I set my standards to... to every walk of life
I haven't met another you since you were with me.
A brief bout with a razorblade cut me
I freaked out, thinking people didn't love me
I watched closely as the you I knew forgot me
In letting go, I am so proud of what I've done
In a way, I failed religion
I spit the wine from mouth to cup
And I reached for something more than just your God
Uncle, you spared not your children
And while your praying hands are up
There's no forgiveness for you! You sick f&^%!
It is you that I remember in their bedroom
It is you that took their first away from them
It is you they set their standards to
You wounded them for life
You were a preacher and suppose to be above men
Sing with me
A brief bout with a razorblade cut me
I freaked out, thinking people didn't love me
I watched closely as the you I knew forgot me
In letting go, I am so proud of what I've done
I see the church situations as
No Accountability = No Forgiveness.